Good attitude and courtesy

Ethics can also be used as a measure of one's personality. Ethics can be shaped through a variety of ways, including interaction, education, environment and customs.

Which must be considered in the ethics of good relationships with peers, below or above us both social and age is the principle of mutual respect. With good ethics it can be ascertained that someone will be well received in the daily association

Why is the Ethics of Intercourse to be considered? it is because.

Humans should be required to connect, know and help.
So that our behavior is accepted and liked by anyone who associates with us.
Manners and everyday behavior are our own personal mirrors

The basic things in social ethics are:

Be polite and friendly
Attention to others
Be able to keep the feelings of others
Tolerance and a sense of wanting to help
Being able to control your emotions

Which must be considered in the association is:

Good at placing themselves
It can distinguish how our attitude toward older people, peers, and younger ones. For example:

The elder / elder should respect us.
Peers should be respected
Younger people should be cherished.

In ethics we can do it when:

In school

In interaction / reciprocal relationship with all personal (Principal, Teachers, Administrative / Tu, School Boys, Friends and so forth.

In society

In interaction / reciprocal relationships with community members. Eg in Store with Shopkeeper, at Post Office with its employees, and so on.

At home

In interaction / reciprocal relationship with family members, both parents and relatives.

Some examples of social manners:

In speaking

Good ethics in speaking are:

Must stare at the other person.
The sound must be clear.
Use good grammar.
Do not use high tone of voice.
Bias offset the other person.
Trying to please the other person.
Able to create an atmosphere of humor.
Praise the other person.
Able to be a good listener.
In speaking avoid the following things;

Talk about other people's badness
Talk about sensitive stuff
Cut off the conversation
Dominating the conversation
A lot of talking about yourself

In acquaintance

Good ethics in the introduction of:

Say the name clearly.
Make eye contact.
Handshake warmly, not cold.
Introduce men to women, young to old or in positions.
When sitting down, you should stand for a moment.
Do not do introductions in crowded places

In calling

Good ethics in calling are:

Immediately pick up the ringing phone
Mention your greetings and names.
Be warm
Do not take calls while you eat
When the call is disconnected then the caller must first reconnect
Do not call while calling others
Take control of your emotions when you receive a call
Say clear words, do not murmur
Avoid excessive intimate conversation
At the end of the conversation say your closing greeting as a thank you

In reproof / salute

Good ethics in the visit:

When meeting with a bunch of acquaintances or friends, we should first admonish or salute the oldest woman of the group. After that new to the others,
When rebuking or paying homage, do not keep a hand in a pocket or place it on the waist, as it will give the impression of arrogance and disrespect in the eyes of an educated person.

In the visit

Good ethics in the visit:

Tell first to get certainty whether the host is in place and willing to visit.
Timely to give a good impression on the host and appreciate the time of the host
Sign in, when already welcome. If the door is not locked, do not arbitrarily enter. When the door is locked tap or ring the bell and be patient.
Say greetings. As a homage to the host and a sign that you have come. Likewise at the time of going farewell.
Remember time. Although the host is very friendly and seems happy for your visit.
Do not hold the goods. Before getting permission from the host praise about the goods.
Do not smoke if not already welcome.
Keep your attitude and speech. Never criticize the interior of the house, any mess.
Situation of the house. If the home situation is not good or need the attention of the host, you should immediately leave.
If there are other guests. Introduce yourself to the guests who come first.
In dressing In the social ethics of a person's appearance can give a good impression or vice versa. Attractive appearance and captivating is the capital to be successful in the association. Attractive and compelling appearance can be obtained by: Understanding the advantages and disadvantages of yourself Understand that everyone has advantages and disadvantages Escape from the sense of inferiority and inferior Be reasonable, not "over or under confidence And in the ethics of dressing we must recognize the characteristics of our body , Here I cite some things in ethics berpakain: For a thin person: Avoid tight clothes Preferred materials smooth and floating Light colors are more advisable Use horizontal stripe motif For a big stature: Avoid clothing horizontal motives Avoid clothes ornaments and accessories excessive Color Light skin will be more attractive to wear dark clothing For women, a mixture of motifs and colors of clothing good kebaya / blouse, cloth length / skirt and scarf / pasmina adjusted. Dress patterned combined with matching suit. For men, the color of the shirt cultivated harmoniously with the color of the suit and tie. Plaid check shirt is not recommended combined with suit on official occasion. The use of a tie is adjusted to the color of the shirt rather than the color of the suit. In the suit and tie shirt is recommended not to insert pins or other objects that make pockets bulging (glasses, mobile phones etc.). At the use of the base tie must end on the belt buckle worn. The bow tie is only for certain clothes and events. For official events wear black shoes and socks tailored to the color of the coat or black color. Avoid shoes with rubber soles or other colors Good personality is a person who: Likes many people, appreciated and valued as a fun person in the association. Considered as a person who deserves trust and appreciation. Usually a person who loves to do good and away from evil, helps and gives attention to the interests of others. Who can love others, even if that person has hurt her, and will forgive others' mistakes. Never run away from responsibility and consequent in action. ETHICS OF RELIGIOUS ADOLESCENT adolescents are a very critical period, a time to relinquish dependence on parents and strive for independence to be accepted and recognized as adults. The success of adolescents through the transition period is strongly influenced by biological factors (physical factors), cognitive (intellectual intelligence), psychological (mental factors), as well as environmental factors. In everyday life, teens can not be separated from the association with other teenagers. Teenagers are required to have social skills (social skills) to be able to adjust to daily life. Such skills include the ability to communicate, establish relationships with others, listen to opinions / complaints from others, give / receive feedback, give / accept criticism, act according to norms and rules apply, and others. The ethical principles of teenage association Our rights and duties are indeed worthy of our demand, but also not to abandon our duty as social beings. Orderly and disciplinedAlways order and discipline in doing every activity. Discipline time let me keteteran. CourtesySet always maintain good manners, either with peers or parents and teachers anytime and anywhere. Simplicity Be modest. Honesty Honesty will get us into the truth. Be honest though it is bitter. JusticeAlways be fair in associating. No discriminating friends. Love Loving and caring for our friends to avoid hostility. The atmosphere & place of our associationThis is very important also for us. Must be observed ya ya. Factors that affect the association of teenagers As a social creature, individuals are required to be able to overcome all the problems that arise as a result of interaction with the social environment and able to present themselves in accordance with the rules or norms that apply. Likewise with the association in adolescents, there are several factors that can affect it include: Physical Condition of Emotional Freedom Social interaction. Knowledge of self-ability Self-mastery of moral values ​​and agamac. The basic principle of healthy association Healthy intercourse is a relationship that is not trapped in two extremes of poles, that is too sensitive (close themselves) or too free. It should be more emphasized on the positive things, such as to reinforce the existence of self or to establish brotherhood and add insight. Knowing each other that everyone needs one another and feels most righteous. As we all know that every human being will certainly need human beings

We must be aware of this situation so that we do not become the most selfish human being.
Relationships provide positive values for both parties. A good relationship is a mutually beneficial relationship. I'm sure you do not like to be harmed otherwise people do not like us to hurt either. From that one of the other basic social relationships is symbiotic mutualism. Do not let us think to harm others Mutual respect and appreciate One word that I always remember if we want in price and in respect of others, then we must first be able to appreciate and respect others This respect and respect for others can be done with many things such as respecting and respecting others' opinions, respecting and respecting the ways of worshiping others, respecting and respecting the customs of others, respecting and respecting the ways of others and others. Not prejudicedAgama regardless of clearly forbid someone to prejudice others. Because prejudice will only bring trouble and hostility between us and others. Mutual understanding of differences Human beings are born with various differences, whether in terms of physical, psychological, race, ethnicity, culture and others. Every human being has its own uniqueness, because it is this we must understand the difference. Mutual adviceThe wise man said a good friend is a friend who always invites to the good road and prevent the road that is not good. This is also one of the principles of healthy association. By giving each other advice, we indirectly, establish a healthier relationship not only for the world, but also for the hereafter. Conclusion of ethical intercourse of teenagers Conclusion 1: The ethics of association is the courtesy or manners in association with the situation and circumstances and does not violate the norms that apply both religious norms, courtesy, customs, laws and others. A good way to behave in a relationship is how a person is prioritizing polite behavior when dealing with everyone. The world of interaction of many kinds. This is influenced by several factors, namely age factor, occupation, attachment, environment and so on. Positive impact of association is Able to form a good personality that can be accepted in various layers so that it can grow and develop into an individual figure who deserves to emulate. The negative impact of association is to grow into an individual figure with a deviant personality. Various problems concerning the problem of teenage association at this time, especially in our country Indonesia, well known to our well-known eastern culture understand the politeness is also rife happen.All of those problems For example: Drugs, Free Sex, HIV / AIDS Disease, Unmarried Pregnancy, Stealing, Clubing, Bad and Ugly Words, Brethren and Fights, Smoking, Skipping Schools, Impersonation of Western Cultures, etc. Conclusion 2: The social environment can change the personality of the Teenagers. Teenagers with a good social environment better personality than children with a bad social environment. The role of parents, friends, teachers, and society is needed for adolescents in the form of examples and advice to deal with the problems of teenagers. The emergence of a sense of care for the environment and association of teenagers, after doing good deeds and useful.